You are sooo right about detachement. I have recently realised although i felt detached there was a small thread keeping me attached. Boy I'm working on that now plus the fear attached to it.
Braveheart you are right about MLCers and rock bottom. I have also seen my H get to what appears to be rock bottom then bounce because he has managed to find the money from somewhere to keep his fantasy life with OW in play. This time I am holding my breath as there is no more money left but at the moment his fantasy life continues.
