Tad, I know!! My H waffles between the times he has been unhappy. I really believe it is the MLC craziness. I do believe H was unhappy during moments in our M, but weren't we all, and he is now using those momnents as justifications for their current actions. One day it will all come crashing down around them, because what problems they had then in their unhappiness they will carry to subsequent relationships.
Antonia, I am leaving this all in God's hands and you are right about just being. I have always subscribed to the "you can catch more bees with honey than vinegar" philosophy. I am taking my new revelations with me daily walking with forgiveness in my heart and happiness in my step everyday. I will see H this afternoon for my daughter's Theatre Banquet with those feelings. God is awesome, and shows me daily His goodness and grace for me.
Blessings to all!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
