Antonia is right. I, also, thought my H no longer cared about our house and property anymore. Found out different in the couple of spew emails we exchanged a while back.
My H won't even come in the house any longer. I truly do believe it's because it upsets him to look around at what he's giving up.
His choice, his loss. Same with your X.
I love seeing your spirit shine through. You are an inspiration!
