SO I did sent another message yesterday to his friend. She got these today and txt H that I was threating her. She forward what I said to him. Of course because she thought this he did. I explained to him it was not a threat. He said he was happy that it was not but that when I talked to her I need to make her feel reassured of this and to make things right. That is his friend and I should not make her feel this way. He said that he wanted me to call her right away. Well my phone was charging I told him I would. Well when the phone was done charging she left me a couple of not to kind messages.
I then tried to call her she did not answer I left her a very nice message that I was not trying to threaten her at all to call me and thanked her. Well about an hour went by so I txted. Her to let her know I was just calling to apologizes that was all. Well she txt me back that she would call me. She did call and said a bunch of stuff that I am just his friend on and on. Not sure if he has someone else. I said I did not care this call was not about that it was just to apologizes to you. That no hard feeling at all because we live in a small town and I know I will run in to her. She then said is that all I said yes sorry again then said Good Bye.
Not sure what kind of story he is going to get but I am very happy that I made this call. Lifted a lot off my shoulders. Still not sure if they had something going on but do not care now. I hope that this has helped him some to see that I can forgive and forget.
All I want is my H and M. I also did give him my wedding ring back yesterday not sure it that was the right move or not but nothing I can do now. Last time we had problems he told me if I gave it back to him I would never get it back again. Thinking about getting it out and putting it back to see what he does.
I think I am going to get it right now and do just that.
