IDK pickle. It sounds like you are being driven by her and what she will take from this. Thats not healthy I dont think. And its not fair to the new person in your life unless they know your sitch and have low expectations for a relationhip with her.

I have done this twice and neither one do I want my W to know about. To be honest, i think I have a problem with my libido but I have kept it under check for sometime now.

Just be honest with yourself why you are getting involved with someone else. To make her jealous or to try and get her back is not the answer.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11