You are not following a key LRT DB rule, initating communication. Please stop texting him! Even though you may think its harmless, its pursuing. You are giving him more reason to avoid you by not giving him the space he wants.
Let him come to you no matter what. Even if you tried to justify saying its a 180 if you text him. When he finally does, it will make you feel better internally (well for the moment). This is one of the easiest rules to follow so please do it for any chance of a R. Text a friend instead or text one of the kids to say hi. Someone other than HIM. I know its hard, been there, done that, but I haven't initated in 4 months other than for kids and even then I try not too. Not that I am piecing (hope too someday) but my H texts me all the time now, everyday and calls too.
Stop please!
Yes, you are right....I am depending way too much on his texts...and I know this. I keep telling myself the same things over and over again, yet I continue to do them. It's no wonder nothing different is happening!
When did I become this co dependent schmuck? I don't know when I did, but I want to break free of it. Thank you for reminding me, yet again, of what I am doing wrong. (Not that you have reminded me constantly...I just meant I've been reminded before, not necessarily by you.)
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤
