wife having affair - please help

[facingdivorce]

So its understanding things from my WW point of view that is difficult.

She is angry in our interactions ( is that a defence mechanism to keep me away?)

She makes no effort to be nice whatsoever.

The thing I need to work on now, is how to create a bridge back to where we have some type of communication. I like the common topic of the children, thats logical and is our connection point.

So I agree no discussion or focus on the OM.I tell you though to just have to accept his presence and ignore it is very tough. I know I have to discuss travel etc with her ( at some point if she cant travel they will let her go ) If she loses her job, she will definately never forgive me.

I wont discuss forgiveness yet with her, I will work on it for sure. I suppose it is something that would come up if we ever get to the point of discussing our relationship

25 always thankyou for your guidance