Where do I go from here?

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Add me to the list of people who are wondering why you were on a dating website.

I agree with lovehurts, just because she is talking to another man does not mean she is doing anything suspicious.

I think it is a good sign that you two spend time together and that nobody is filing for divorce. Personally, I feel unless there is abuse, or serial cheating, it's never too late.

Keep your head up, keep going to counseling and working on yourself.