Where do I go from here?

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Btr,

Sorry that you have landed here but you will find out this is a great place to learn and grow.

Im right with Stacig, you cannot be mad a her if she caught you on match.com. You need to ask yourself why were u on that site.

I do not know your wife, but as a female sometimes we need advice and opinions of the opposite sex. For now believe her is she says they are just friends, if you deny it and accuse her of anything..it will backfire and just push her away.

I can only guess that she keeps seeing you on spur, to check "has he changed?" "is his life still consumed in front of a computer screen?"