I'm still here

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I completely agree. Time does heal all.

I'm sorry to hear that you and your H have separated again, I really hope you can work through it.

The DB, DR, and this forum have been my savior through all of this.
I don't know if you've read all my posts but I have come a long way since H & I separated in Feb. I've been in IC for almost 5 months and it has done wonders for my spirit and self esteem. I've often said that even though I hate the circumstances that lead me to take a good look at myself, I am grateful for the wake up call because it made me realize that there was a lot of work I needed to do on myself. I have done some true 180's and I have a ways to go, but I am confident that I can change my life where once upon a time I felt it was hopeless.

I'm owning up to my mistakes in my M, and I no longer beat myself up over them. Sometimes I get down on myself but then I remind myself that I am no longer that woman.

The GAL is going ok, some days are good, others not so much.
I do believe in myself and I do believe in love, but I don't think I would ever get remarried if H & I do end up divorcing, it would be my 2nd D and if I can't make 2 M's work, it's obviously not for me.