True, your words have helped many on here. You are respected and cared about. And when we see one of us struggling, we come to help.
Sometimes when we are find ourselves lost a bit, we try to force movement one way or another. often without realizing it.
Here's the thing. You love your wife. You are human. We detach to protect ourselves, to help us move forward, but, at the core of it all, we still care deeply. And sometimes, it is difficult to see past that.
You can choose to move in another direction. No one would fault you that.
I just think that when you still have such raw emotions, it might not be what is best for you at this time.
I do believe, though, that you can find peace.
There is peace that comes from accepting where you wife is at now and in letting her go and wishing her happiness.
There is peace that comes from knowing you have done all you could.
There is peace that comes from knowing that you've worked to become the person you are now.
True, other people should not determine our happiness or fill any void we may feel. That comes from within. It comes from living a good life.
So, finish your business with your feelings before you make the decision to move on.
Knowing who you are and what you believe, it is what you need to do, I think.
