Denver, I really don't see that much of a difference bw option 1 and 2. To me they feel like they are one in the same. JMO. Like Kaffe said, drop the rope, and Country said, give her the space she needs. Combine those for option 2.
If what you are doing is not working and pushing her away, how is that helping your sitch. Start living your life. Hopefully she will see what a strong confident person you are and will wonder why she ever thought about leaving you.
I think you got sucked back in just like I did a few weeks ago, but your sitch has been drawn out longer. You give great advice, you just have to remember how to live it like bf.
Islander and Kaffe - I just want to thank you guys for your thoughts and encouragement...
It means so much that all of you are here and understand what I am going through. BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
