85 Days

[ninelives]

Denver:

You truly are an inspiration to many of us on this board. You have fought really hard to get to where you are. What seems to be the pattern to some degree is that the WAW really needs to deal with her own issues before she can love you the way you deserve.

Im struggling with something right now Denver and this is just food for thought.

I want my wife back but the real wife, not a figment of her or a wife that is in love with or thinks shes in love with somebody else.

Why would we want something like that. We are then just settling because we are afraid to live life without them.

Yes there are other factors like your SS and for me its my kids.
But we deserve to have somebody truly love us that wants to be with us and goes our of their way to make US feel special. And yes it goes both ways, we KNOW we would try like hell to make them feel special. The old marriage is dead but not buried because I would like to take the best parts of the old marriage;
( and there were some amazing things) and just add the things I have learned on this site. I know Denver you would make your wife so HAPPY if she let you but again, she had to really want it.

We are up against it Denver, lets not lose focus on what Dbing is but lets keep our eyes open as well. We deserve to be loved.

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