She is no where near ready to committ to your marriage again Denver any time soon. Even if she does, I think she might resent you and feel that you pressured her into getting back and that will not be sustainable.
ONLY when you truly detach and she REally comes back on her own to you stand a chance.
I know that you are right 9. Thanks man.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce