The current situation is BEST for the kids, however she sees them less because of the shift she works. As I said her new suggestion would allow her more flexibility and freedom in her life... It would benefit my personal and social life too... But she would see them even less as would I... The BABYSITTER / CHILDCARE facility would see them most, and I don't think that is a good idea for our kids. I can't allow that. I just don't and it has nothing to do with what I personally want. If she would be in a position to be with then herself 2p-bedtime... A setup that would encourage more parental interaction on her part and mine... I'd have no problem with it.
