My objection regarding her newest proposal is simply that the kids will be forced to be mostly raised by a babysitter during the best time of their day. My W would only see them when they wake until 2pm. Her interaction with them will not increase... It will actually decrease... Instead of seeing them 10 days in 2 weeks from 7a-2p... She would only see them 5 days 7a-2p. I know my W... On her off days they will be overnight at someone's house one or both of those days... Is what she does now.

The other big issue is I will be in a position where I will be unable to provide them transportation to school each morning. I don't know how she would even do pickup herself... But that would be her concern. Kids are currently in schools that do not bus from our location... We did open enrollment to better schools.


Me:39 W:31 M:8
D6,3,19mo S5
I filed D 07-2010