WOW blessed, 25 has sure done her job here. Please listen to EVERYTHING she has said without the YEAH BUTS. Those will not server you well.

It is diffuicult to see our roles in this as LBS and take the ownership to heart. I do caution you to Yes , take some ownership but dont beat yourself up over it. And stop playing the victim card. I played that card so much and it was not productive at all. What was the matter with me? I did EVERYTHING WRONG and really pushed her towards the OM , maybe to the point where it cant be saved.

You need to take stock on your victim behaviour. And Forgiveness is goig to take Everything Ive got. Hopefully you can do that as well.

Good luck, you can do this with patience.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11