Wow - I wonder if S has some inkling of what his dad is up to. That is an interesting question for an older child to ask, right? Might be worth having a convo with your son (NOT about H), but just about cheating in general and what his thoughts were on the movie. He may be looking for some sort of moral guidance from you guys.
Hi AJ,
It was actually my daughter...she is pretty intuitive. A couple of weeks ago she and I were chatting in the jacuzzi and she asked "are you and dad going to get a divorce?". She knows H is gone for long periods of unaccounted for time on weekends. For example, this a.m. we are supposed to head to sons baseball game up north (at least an hour away), should be leaving in 10 minutes but wait...H decides to go the the "gym". Seriously? I'm sure he might actually go to the gym, but I'm also sure he is calling OW from his secret cell phone. He seemed frustrated this a.m. and I think it is because he is obligated to go see his son play and not rendezvous with OW. If we win the game today, there could be two games tomorrow....so he wouldn't be able to see her then either. I'm sure he is formulating his plan to "ESCAPE" at the earliest possible moment this weekend. He always does.
Hope we win today!
Me - 49 H - 56 S - 23 D - 20 Married 25 years H moved out 10/11/13 H moved back in 10/13/13 H moved out again 8/1/14
