(Hugs) to you Irish, and remember. Smile, be pleasant. Visit and talk with acquaintances. The more at home you look, the less she will be. I also avoided pics of my H & OW, but when I saw her, when friends and relatives saw her, she doesn't hold a candle to old grandma here. It will be the same for you. That is, unless your husband is George Clooney or Brad Pitt?
