Ditto islander. She may have told her friend she is open about the M and you about attorneys. I am sure with all of this her previous problems of you being controlling are popping up. Give her space. Don't say things about what she says to her friends because even if she is loud, it is private. Instead last night you could have said "thank you for letting me stay here with you. I don't deserve it and appreciate I appreciate it." she might have said, yeah you don't deserve it or something worse but then you expressed your thankfulness if what you heard without letting on she was too loud and you heard everything. Always think way ahead before you speak. Another person on here and I always said DBing is like playing chess. You have to always think.


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I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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