Of course his going to some counseling is probably a condition of a recon down the road, but your IC is a bit...over reaching if she's never met him and yet diagnosed him this way. For me, as a L and the w of an MD, --my h would NEVER diagnose a patient he had not met and examined....just seems to be careless.
I'm Sorry to say that b/c hey, if she's great for YOU then keep going - but he needs some other type of person I'm guessing. Why have the same one if you both need IC anyhow?
His little brother's death...your h must have carried some serious baggage around all these yeasr, almost like PTSD (and NOT narcissist or borderline personality disorder). What on earth did he do to get that label?
How was he as a father? Friend? Do you want to reconcile with him?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
