I'll have to read your thread in more detail. My gut is resisting your IC's push to do R talk and pressuring him when things are looking up, but I don't know what evidence there is that your h has a personality disorder. Did she use those actual terms? Is she qualified to assess HIM? How so? I mean have they met at length? Those things (personality disorders) are big deals...potential nightmares.
What's up with that? Any insights there? WTH? I'm a L fyi. Long ago I worked with sex abuse victims and there were many who were NOT abused...I know, I know, MOST WERE...but quite a few were "diagnosed" by recovered memories, by unqualified people who later discovered, oops, it could NOT have happened at all, or that way, or with that man, etc...many lives were ruined by careless diagnoses. So I'm asking what's up with all that?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
