Hey I made it a week! Only one major total breakdown of confidence and hope!
Last evening I went to GS2 teeball game, took GD6 with me. He was fussy and wouldn't play, kept running to his Mom. She no sooner got him into the carseat after the game and he urrpped all over her backseat. Guess we know why he was fussy.
GS4 found some kiddy scissors and cut a patch about the size of a canning jar lid out of his hair, right in front. Down to the scalp. My D had no choice but have him scalped. Since he was always my 'little hippy' it is very strange.
Overall, I am doing okay. Good to keep busy, still nervous about the settlement judgement, though. Want to know, yet don't. Kind of hanging on a thread. "Join us next week when we see if Pauline Purehart is living in a box" kind of thread.
Oh! Had a patient come in yesterday who said he was there for his ' Rectal Eye Exam' instead of 'Retinal'. Tough to stay professional, some times. Oh, who am I kidding. I don't blush easy.
Oh! Had a patient come in yesterday who said he was there for his ' Rectal Eye Exam' instead of 'Retinal'. Tough to stay professional, some times. Oh, who am I kidding. I don't blush easy.
LMAO
Not sure I could have stayed professional!
Congratulations for making it thru the week! (((hugs)))
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
WARNING: This post divorce crap is a biotch. Aa Brooklyn told me, just when you think you have your mind wrapped around the entire concept . . . Uhmmm, maybe not.
Ayep…I am kinda of expecting that my emotion will be a little bit all over the place. Part of me I am sure will be relieved while another part of me will be sad, that it had to come to this. The one thing that I continue to remind myself is that my STBXW is entitled to live HER life the way she sees fit. She is entitled to be happy – as am I.
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You are one great lady in my book
I second Grit’s comment up there ^^^
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still nervous about the settlement judgement, though
I can soooo relate to this ^^^^. I may end up losing my shirt BUT (yes I said BUT)…I did find my soul! For this I am grateful.
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Kind of hanging on a thread. "Join us next week when we see if Pauline Purehart is living in a box" kind of thread.
IMO, IF you focus on what YOU can control you will be surprised at how creative you can be.
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he was there for his ' Rectal Eye Exam'
I suspect that my Grit had some sort of rectal exam (actually he confirmed this)….question is with….. 
Chin up Punkin….oh and yes you are invited to the party. I will sending out an email message on an alternate medium with several questions around dates.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Thanks for stopping by my thread - sent an email, and as I posted, no acknowledgment. I think I am being 'punished' in part for not giving a full account of the kids doing in response to his query. Who knows with a MLCer?
PS I think we should BOTH move in with Mila and pick up her stray men.
Hi punkin...despite your though last week, your spirit shines through...you are one though cookie with a great sense of humor and you always make me laugh
Rectal Eye Exam ..... how did you keep a straight face?...LMAO
Beatrice - LOL .... you girls would be welcome and we could have our own party
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Got my Judge's Opinion today. I knew I would, it being Friday the 13th and all.
I get half of the alimony I asked for for half the time. That's good, considering Arkansas is not an alimony state. Usually only alimony is awarded when it is offered. I get half his pension and protection of same in the event he should pass away before I do. I keep the contents of the house, he keeps what he has removed ( stolen ) I have health insurance w/dental as stated by the Armed Forces. I live in the house for the next 3 months in order to allow it to sell. After that, it can be auctioned. I have asked my lawyer to send an offer to his L that he allow me to buy the house for the mtg. amount. If he declines, I can buy it at auction for the same amount, barring anyone else, and these days, there hardly is.
I've cried all afternoon. Not for the judgement. That is good, but for the death of all our dreams. It is finally and completely dead and over. Part of me wants to keep the house in order to sell it at a decent amount, part of me wants to just let it go and get on with my life.
I have three months to make that decision, and perhaps 2 months after that to get out.
I am a bit overwhelmed. I knew it would happen. I knew it would change everything. The actual death of all we worked for for twenty years is a bit duanting.
(((PUNKIN))) I am so sorry you are struggling with this grief. I too have felt this way on and off for a couple of weeks. I have come to the conclusion that I can't keep up this house by myself and I am working on it in order to put it on the market. Though H has not filed for divorce yet, I can't wait for that, I have to get out from underneath the payment and all the work. I too am sad that I have to sell it. When we bought the house we said we would never move again, and searched for the right house we would retire in, but it seems that isn't going to happen. So, as I paint and prepare my house for sale I am grieving too, for the death of my marriage, for the hopes and dreams we had in our future.
Have a drink for me.
Blessings,
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
Oh, who am I kidding. I don't blush easy. 
