I agree with all that 23years - and I am learning to be happy regardless of what she does, unless it actually affects my kids or me in some way. I won't focus on her "getting it" but right now it's something I still want to happen, before she completely destroys her life since that will really upset my kids, especially S17.
It's been almost 23 years since we met and only a couple days since I threw in the towel. I'm sure with time, my need for anything from her will fade. Right now, though...well....I suppose I actually kinda want karma to bit her right in the unfaithful butt! Just a big enough bite to feel it, but not to hurt forever.
