When h was at his "Go to the Tundra Alone" peak, I put in an application for a job in Italy, for a one year gig. My kids were FINE with it and I got excited too. I said nothing to h about it but he saw the job application. I am sure he wondered wth? And when he realized that WE would ALL go, and h would be wherever he was, idk, I think it got to him. It was't a tactic though. It was an exciting back up plan. And it helped me realize that if things really went sour for us, I would be FINE and in touch with the advantages of being single. As it was, I mostly focussed on all the negatives. So, in that way, it was very good for me and ultimately for us.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
