WAW, and a bisexual open marriage

[OnMyWay]

gb90,

I was once in a relationship where my SO & I got in the "habit" of always fighting about everything. I finally had enough and made the conscious decision to stop - to no longer engage in that type of behavior. It was difficult on her, but she eventually learned, once I wouldn't engage her any longer, to change her approach and we finally began getting along.

If you want to have a better life and you feel W is immature, then it may be up to you to show her the way. Lead by example.

It takes hard work and a lot of will power to avoid habit fighting over nothing. However, you can change the course here by choosing differently.

Small steps here. First one, cut the fighting.