I think it is a requirement for a WAS to do things with out thinking.
I don't think you should move across the country, at least not yet. See what happens in your sitch, and leave on your terms, not to run away from something.
I know this, bc I felt the same way and truly thought about doing just that, even though I knew it was a rash decision at the moment. I still think about it, but in different terms. And I don feel rushed to do it either.
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...