Ouch...it does get better. One positive- Finally, you can hunt for a job without any consideration of what your h wants/needs. Seems perhaps like a small thing, but freedom is not a small thing. Embrace it.
(( hugs ))
Well, the job hunt is still hard. Do I stay here or do I move clear across the country? I applied in both places for now but I feel like moving away from here completely would be a mistake right now.