just began reading your sitch, and have a few questions.
Have you read the DB books? (Esp the Div Remedy one, b/c you already know you don't want a div and the first book, DB, spends time on how bad divorce is, which we "get").
Do you see how your approach did not work? So, now what are you doing to show your h that marriage to you NOW, and going forward, would be different than before? Thing is, if he feels that you will never forgive him, how can he come back?
And if you continue to bring things up from the past or hold it over his head, well, you trap both of you in this same pattern.
My DB coach said "Keep the road home, paved and smooth". Do you "get" that?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
