Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
At some level you like this, or are addicted to it, or simply don't have any role models for ways of communicating and activities to show you another way of living. Their way of living is not healthy. It's dysfuntional and destructive. Period.

This is crazy stuff. DETACH...her complaint about you being gregarious is so odd and out of line, I would have laughed in her face. "Sorry I'm friendly. Put that on my list of flaws..." good grief, why are you inviting such commentary? Oh, you're not. You're just listening to it and then engaging. Don't. Just don't. This isn't complicated 9. It's simple. Not easy, but not complicated.

You engage far too much, you read into everything and your w is soooo NOT indifferent to you. That would be a sign that it's over.


.....read this again and again......

Then ask yourself, if that is who you really want to be.


25---good to see your wisdom and insight around here, it had been missed..

If you are traveling to the Alma-Mater-give me a holla.

If not , travel safe sweetie...