the calmer you are, the stronger AND SANER, you look.
I'm betting she would like a refuge from the constant storms of her family, (& the storms she creates). Be that refuge.
And btw, why do you do your GAL things on the nights you have the boys? Can you see why that bothers your w?
I am not suggesting you go over her "grievance list" or validate that, b/c she's out of line with that and you cannot engage like that anymore.
You are not "inviting" negative feedback from her or anyone else and you should not take it. She had a point but the way she delivered it was intolerable so anything that might have been valid gets ignored. Why? B/C she doesn't know how to lovingly or calmly deliver any messages. She only gives out complaints and insults and she's reinforced with that b/c you listen to it and so, that's all she knows.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
