I don't know what she wants anymore. I suspect she herself does not know. All I know are her complaints.
1. Not physically attracted
2. I'm indecisive when it comes to making plans (I was just trying to give her a choice).
3. I am too loud (she gets mad at me if I don't whisper like a mouse in public. She says it's rude.)
4. I don't use proper grammar (this is merely ridculous on her part since i speak near perfect English, but that's not good enough.)
5. She has a huge lists of things I can do wrong around the house, everything must be perfectly where she wants it despite the house being a complete mess.
So yeah i have worked on a lot of these picky things, and they have helped to get us not to want to kill each other. As you said though we can't seem to work on the hard stuff. She doesn't know what she wants from me, so I am clueless too. Rebuilding intimacy has been ridiculously hard. She still finds kisses and hugs awkward. I was hoping being tougher would help, it's gotten me mixed results. I want her so badly.
