Do you really love him or do you love the guy you thought he was 12 years ago.
I think about that a lot. If I was meeting STBXW for the first time, would I fall for her? I don't think so -- although it's a hypothetical so I'll never know for sure.
I do know getting wasn't a mistake. I still love the person I thought she was 16 years ago.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6