As for wanting her to be happy, I have to admit that I really don't at this point.
Of course, that's OK. That's an emotion that you'll work through.
I recently was reminded that the opposite of love is NOT hate, it is apathy. I don't think that any of us will be at that point (apathy / indifference) for a long time, if we end up in D.
Let out the negative emotions now, while you are in a safe place to do so and not feeling the need to have contact with W. Just don't share those feelings with your W...
Originally Posted By: BeTheMan
...in an odd way, I am proud that it didn't take me until then. Sometimes it's ok to just quit!
See it and say it how you need to, in order to move forward with your life and GAL. I'd say, "stop! step off the road most traveled! smell the roses!"