young at heart makes some very lovely points but I am not sure the situations are that alike.
It won't hurt you to read Hartley's words or the other resources of course. And I get the point about the bikes and recreational time together. But YAH, did your w tell you she wanted OPs sexually? I mean, that's a pretty big obstacle here.
And I don't hear anything from her about working on HER issues. At all. I mean, I've got to say that GB deserves kudos for coping as well as he has. There are a lot of things going on in this M that I am worried about.
You deserve to be happy and loved GB. And wanted. If you are an active duty soldier there's no way you are a slob or out of shape so I really think you need to realize you are a good catch. Especially with your attitude about change.
Very cool. Keep at it but I still ask, What does she expect from you?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016