9, you're doing SO much better keeping your emotions in check, for that, I applaud you.
But, I just can't leave without one good swing, I just enjoy it too much!
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I am getting much better and even was taking a new approach to you. I was being nicer and you saw that. But I dont know if I want you texting me anymore if every third one is going to be nasty based on your perception.
M: Okay then , lets go back to just quick responses to the kids only, YOU LIVE YOur life and I will live mine, PEriod
You need to cut all this crap out. The first line about taking a new approach, just sounds like a ploy. I don’t think you should be telling her any of this, you simply act for you, the way you want to.
Then you set the rules for the future, again, this is for you to decide and then act upon. Not something to be told to your W. All IMVHO of course.
I would suggest not engaging her at all when she gets nasty. If she continues and asks why you are ignoring her, simply tell her you have no interest in this type of discuss.
We are suggested to be polite and upbeat with our WAS. It is also VERY important to know when to KEEP OUR MOUTH SHUT.
Too many words can only hurt IMO.
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