It is all very interesting and adds to my understanding of my H. He has been in awakening since Oct/Nov 2010. All replay behaviurs have gone including clothes and motorbikes etc. But OW remains and to some extent that is the only replay behaviour H has now.
He is extrmely depressed, struggling not to cry, losing lots of weight, not sleeping and admited to our D 20 that he needs alcohol to sleep.
H is business is in crisis and his debt huge.
There is nowhere to go now as he can't even afford a cup of coffee.
HJis touch and goes are increasing. He will have visited the childre 3 times this week. He is also reconnrecting with them big style. He has started to offer to do jobs around the house.