I am not a victim... I realize now I created this outcome. I had hoped she was more willing to ride out the storm though. Then again this occurring is the only way some of my changes came to be. Provided we reconcile someday, I'd easily say this was the best thing that could have happened to our marriage. I will admit now my mistakes were major.
By scorecard you mean keeping track of what she did wrong vs what I did? Blaming her? You suggest just dropping it? What's an appropriate way to deal with that feeling?
