"You should also keep in mind that your spouse may not respond exactly the way you want him/her to when you show remorse. S/he might be sarcastic or withdrawn or even unkind. This doesn't mean that s/he isn't listening to what you're saying..."
1st, don't tell me you'll look into the book. Go get it. Library, used book store, new book store, Amazon. Not for her, for you. She might not like the site, but you're here.
We (collective) have a problem, we tend to hear what we 'hope' to hear. Don't push your 'hope' on her.
Right now? You hurt her...bad. She is paying you back in kind.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
