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* No talking about your R / issues with your W and kid.
* Always be positive and upbeat.
* Set healthy boundaries regarding what she can discuss with you.


Thanks SF. Yea, i need to start practicing DBing on her. My bigger worry lately has been that if i let my mom affect me this way, i'll be jeopardizing my future relationships too.

Since my mom is more accessible right now than my wife, it will be a good DB practice for me.

BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...