Yesterday was much better. I talked to daughter for almost 15 mins. Thats way too much time for her to stay attentive. At-least wife was around again prodding daughter to talk to me. I am glad she's doing this. Not sure if i should express this out to her.
So i told wife about my visit to see daughter on 21st. I have to give her a week's notice. The only questions she had were 'when i was coming' and 'how long i am staying'. The second question sounded in-appropriate. But i guess i was seeing things through the 'husband' glasses. She does not look through those glasses anymore. For her this is a event where she needs to schedule things correctly. No emotions, just practical.
One mistake i did was telling my mom about it this morning. My mom loves drama and creates one where none exists. I am just learning this now. By the time i was done talking to her, i was angry and more emotional. Had to call up my dad to set myself straight. I need to pay more attention to him. I am finding that i am still quickly drawn into my mother's drama and cannot seem to extricate myself quickly. Have to figure out a way of dealing with this.
Anyway, now need to buy some presents for daughter. Maybe a princess bike now.
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