Can I close the door and leave it unlocked?

[islander]

Believe it or not 9, I am actually doing a lot better lately. I haven't let SD or W know anything that bothers me. And the point about the play is that my SD is very lost and hurting at 9 years old...imagine what she will be dealing with in maybe 3 years if she continues on this same path. Very possibly a life could be destroyed. But there is nothing that I can do about it, it is out of my hands. I am doing what I need to do for me right now. I am there for my SD as much as I can, but I am almost not even in a position to correct her behavior anymore. And really, my SD behavior is o ly a symptom of a much larger problem, the problems that my W has.