I mean, just b/c the funeral ends Saturday means nothing. She'll grieve more later.
Good point, something I'll have to remember.
One thing I am not sure of, should I continue to offer help? Or just wait for her to come to me?
I can see her wanting it but being afraid to ask. I can also see my offers being seen as pursuing if I do too much.
I am waiting to get some guidance from her on how she wants this weekend to work. I don't know if she'll want to see D at all, or if I'll just go to the service and leave without seeing her or her family. She took both Sat. and Sun. off, so she is welcome to D if she would like to have her around. I just don't want to push for answers from her.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
