Originally Posted By: Lotus
I'm not buying it, sorry. You've been pressuring her? By going to her brother's wedding rehearsal dinner because she asked you to go there? By going to her brother's wedding, where again, she said she wanted you there and even dictated the way you should act while you were there? Or maybe you smothered her by being nice to her on mother's day? Or, tonight, taking SS to the video store to get him what he was probably begging her for. Nope. You are just being used, and then cast off. Nothing more.

Time to get a life. Big time. If she decides somewhere down the road, when the guy on the white horse figures out that SS is too much baggage and rides off, that you were the best thing that ever happened to her. Well, she may be in for a disappointment. But that is not your problem.


You are probably right Lotus.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce