I just want to add a couple things as I think about them.

I DO understand the tight rope you are walking here.

I am NOT saying you start ignoring your W. Of course, I know you know that as well.

I am just suggesting that she and your sitch just not be to complete, dominating, overwhelming, obsessive thing in your life for a bit.

Spend time with yourself. Time with friends. Family. Hell, we know SS could use some time.

BALANCE!

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.