Need help urgently.....

Really nervous about talks tomorrow with H and MIL. I think I may have made a mistake by agreeing to this. What do you all think?

I feel that this is not the right environment to be discussing these issues. But MIL thinks that its best that there be a mediator as we are not communicating effectively. As she puts it - H is not beeing assertive.

She asked me whether I wanted to continue to spend time together with H and S during the week night. To be honest I dont. Not if he is still in a R with OW. It hurts too much.

How do I say communicate this effectively without sounding hurt? Like I couldnt give a damn about H and OW?


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11