Abbey - I wish now I had told fewer people and shared fewer details still. BUT, I needed people to talk to. I did not tell anyone outside of family unless I thought 1) they'd keep mouth shut and 2) if H was not comfortable with them, I would be ok with not seeing them socially much if we reconciled. Because they will judge him and you. They love you and will have a much harder time forgiving him than you ever would. They'll prob question why you are staying with him and question his motives.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem
