Oh, actually I just reread that line about the 180 a couple times - I know what you mean. But I get the sense he doesn't want me to initiate. I only had to recently b/c he all but stopped ever having sex with me. So I started initiating since my sex drive returned (I had a baby 21 months ago) and it was like he wasn't there anymore. He's been initiating a little more lately, but I stopped (it wasn't something I was used to doing anyway)... I think when I initiate it either freaks him out or he backs off. It's almost like it's a turn off? Though I'm not sure; I could be just reading into that.
