Snarches the Passionate Marriage has an interesting section on differences in sex drive within a marriage.
He takes the attitude that one partner will always want more of something (children, sex, dessert, etc.) than the other partner and that a couple needs to negotiate all of these things. He also gives advice (self soothing) on how each partner can deal with the needs of their mate.
I can't answer your question as I have never been intimate with a woman who was more HD. That doesn't mean they aren't out there, nor does it mean that I am extremely HD. I am just married to a woman who libido is lower than mine.
This may sound silly, but get yourself a subscription to Redbook Magazine. It is sort of the Cosmo for women who are married. On the advice of others, I got the subscription for my LD wife and she has found a lot of the articles interesting. There is more in each magazine on sexual advice for women than just about any other magazine out there.
As to the stopping of initiating, unless this is part of a 180, I would urge you to use caution. We all need love
Wait, what's the point of Redbook? I'm not sure what you're saying...
What is a 180? And what do you mean about using caution? Sorry, I just want to be clear what you're saying.
