I hardly ever talk to my W now. The only reason I talk to her is regarding the Ds and even then, it's only been about when to pick the Ds up when we have visitation.
She actually said that I don't listen to her when she tells me things. The funny thing is, she hasn't talked to me in a while. I finally had it and said, you need to find someone else to blame because you can't blame me anymore. She continued to accuse me of not listening and I returned - only once - that I don't listen because I'm not talking to her. She can't accuse me of it anymore.
It felt really good. REALLY good to not let her influence me. I don't need her anymore. It's so nice to feel that.
Actually, I don't miss her anymore either. I don't miss the pain for sure.
It's nice to worry about myself and my Ds now.
Thanks to all of you who have been helping. I do hope to return the favor here sometime. Now that I feel I'm getting my feet (a little) I will do what I can.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
